“Stefan Merrill Block has penned a coming-of-age saga for the ages….” — Mary Karr, NYT bestselling author of The Liar’s Club

Stefan Merrill Block grew up in Plano, Texas. He is the author of the New York Times bestselling memoir Homeschooled (a TODAY show / Read with Jenna pick), as well as three novels: The Story of Forgetting, The Storm at the Door, and Oliver Loving.

The Story of Forgetting was an international bestseller and the winner of Best First Fiction at the Rome International Festival of Literature, The Ovid Prize from the Romanian Writer’s Union, the 2008 Merck Serono Literature Prize and the 2009 Fiction Award from The Writers’ League of Texas. The Story of Forgetting was also a finalist for the debut fiction awards from IndieBound, Salon du Livre and The Center for Fiction. Stefan has also been awarded The University of Texas Dobie-Paisano Fellowship, as well as residencies at The Santa Maddalena Foundation and Castello Malaspina di Fosdinovo in Italy.

Stefan’s writing has been translated into ten languages, and his stories and essays have appeared in The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Guardian, NPR’s Radiolab, GRANTA, and many other publications. He lives with his family in upstate New York, where he is a co-owner of Skate Time, a local roller rink.

Homeschooled: A Memoir

Hanover Square Press |
Memoir

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER! • A READ WITH JENNA TODAY SHOW BOOK CLUB PICK • A heartbreaking, empowering, often hilarious debut memoir about a mother’s all-consuming love, a son’s perilous quest to discover the world beyond the front door and the unregulated homeschool system that impacts millions like him

*A Top 10 Amazon Book of the Month Pick*
*A Washington Post Book to Read in January!*
*A 
Library Journal BigBook of the Week!*
*A 
BookRiot Best New Nonfiction of January!*

Stefan Merrill Block was nine when his mother pulled him from school, certain that his teachers were “stifling his creativity.” Hungry for more time with her boy who was growing up too quickly, she began to instruct Stefan in the family’s living room. Beyond his formal lessons in math, however, Stefan was largely left to his own devices and his mother’s erratic whims, such as her project to recapture her twelve-year-old son’s early years by bleaching his hair and putting him on a crawling regimen.
In this “stunning debut memoir” (Jenna Bush Hager, The Today Show), Block beautifully reflects on his experiences in both traditional and at-home education systems, delving into:

  • The inception of the homeschooling movement and its massive rise throughout America
  • Early memories of Block’s mother, and a poignant look into their dysfunctional mother-son story
  • Block’s reentry into the public school system, both jarring yet insightful, and the bullying he withstood
  • His emotional journey towards forgiveness, love, and hope as he becomes a parent himself

At once a novelistic portrait of mother and son, and an illuminating window into an overlooked corner of the American education system, Homeschooled is a moving, funny and ultimately inspiring story of a son’s battle for a life of his own choosing, and the wages of a mother’s insatiable love.

Oliver Loving: A Novel

Flatiron Books |
Literary Fiction

A family in crisis, a town torn apart, and the boy who holds the secret has been cocooned in a coma for ten years.

One warm, West Texas November night, a shy boy named Oliver Loving joins his classmates at Bliss County Day School’s annual dance, hoping for a glimpse of the object of his unrequited affections, an enigmatic Junior named Rebekkah Sterling. But as the music plays, a troubled young man sneaks in through the school’s back door. The dire choices this man makes that evening ―and the unspoken story he carries― will tear the town of Bliss, Texas apart.

Nearly ten years later, Oliver Loving still lies wordless and paralyzed at Crockett State Assisted Care Facility, the fate of his mind unclear. Orbiting the stillpoint of Oliver’s hospital bed is a family transformed: Oliver’s mother, Eve, who keeps desperate vigil; Oliver’s brother, Charlie, who has fled for New York City only to discover he cannot escape the gravity of his shattered family; Oliver’s father, Jed, who tries to erase his memories with bourbon. And then there is Rebekkah Sterling, Oliver’s teenage love, who left Texas long ago and still refuses to speak about her own part in that tragic night. When a new medical test promises a key to unlock Oliver’s trapped mind, the town’s unanswered questions resurface with new urgency, as Oliver’s doctors and his family fight for a way for Oliver to finally communicate― and so also to tell the truth of what really happened that fateful night.

A moving meditation on the transformative power of grief and love, a slyly affectionate look at the idiosyncrasies of family, and an emotionally-charged page-turner, Stefan Merill Block’s Oliver Loving is an extraordinarily original novel that ventures into the unknowable and returns with the most fundamental truths.

The Storm at the Door: A Novel

Faber & Faber |
Literary Fiction
The past is not past for Katharine Merrill. Even after two decades of volatile marriage, Katharine still believes she can have the life that she felt promised to her by those first exhilarating days with her husband, Frederick. For two months, just before Frederick left to fight in World War II, Katharine received his total attentiveness, his limitless charms, his astonishing range of intellect and wit. Over the years, however, as Frederick’s behavior and moods have darkened, Katharine has covered for him, trying to rein in his great manic passions and bridge his deep wells of sadness: an unending project of keeping up appearances and hoping for the best. But the project is failing. Increasingly, Frederick’s erratic behavior, amplified by alcohol, distresses Katharine and their four daughters and gives his friends and family cause to worry for his sanity. When, in the summer of 1962, a cocktail party ends with her husband in handcuffs, Katharine makes a fateful decision: She commits Frederick to Mayflower Home, America’s most revered mental asylum.

There, on the grounds of the opulent hospital populated by great poets, intellectuals, and madmen, Frederick tries to transform his incarceration into a creative exercise, to take each meaningless passing moment and find the art within it. But as he lies on his room’s single mattress, Frederick wonders how he ever managed to be all that he once was: a father, a husband, a business executive. Under the faltering guidance of a self-obsessed psychiatrist, Frederick and his fellow patients must try to navigate their way through a gray zone of depression, addiction, and insanity.

Meanwhile, as she struggles to raise four young daughters, Katharine tries to find her way back to Frederick through her own ambiguities, delusions, and the damages done by her rose-colored belief in a life she no longer lives.

Inspired by elements of the lives of the author’s grandparents, this haunting love story shifts through time and reaches across generations. Along the way, Stefan Merrill Block stunningly illuminates an age-old truth: even if one’s daily life appears ordinary, one can still wage a silent, secret, extraordinary war.

The Story of Forgetting: A Novel

Random House |
Literary Fiction

In Stefan Merrill Block’s extraordinary debut, three narratives intertwine to create a story that is by turns funny, smart, introspective, and revelatory.

Abel Haggard is an elderly hunchback who haunts the remnants of his family’s farm in the encroaching shadow of the Dallas suburbs, adrift in recollections of those he loved and lost long ago. As a young man, he believed himself to be “the one person too many”; now he is all that remains. Hundreds of miles to the south, in Austin, Seth Waller is a teenage “Master of Nothingness”–a prime specimen of that gangly, pimple-rashed, too-smart breed of adolescent that vanishes in a puff of sarcasm at the slightest threat of human contact. When his mother is diagnosed with a rare form of early-onset Alzheimer’s, Seth sets out on a quest to find her lost relatives and to conduct an “empirical investigation” that will uncover the truth of her genetic history. Though neither knows of the other’s existence, Abel and Seth are linked by a dual legacy: the disease that destroys the memories of those they love, and the story of Isidora–an edenic fantasy world free from the sorrows of remembrance, a land without memory where nothing is ever possessed, so nothing can be lost.

Through the fusion of myth, science, and storytelling, this novel offers a dazzling illumination of the hard-learned truth that only through the loss of what we consider precious can we understand the value of what remains.

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HOMESCHOOLED: A Writer’s Journey

Before it was a New York Times bestselling memoir and a TODAY READ WITH JENNA pick, Stefan Merrill Block’s HOMESCHOOLED began as a way of grappling with the grief of a suddenly vanished mother and the complex legacy of a nearly invisible part of his childhood: the five years Stefan spent subject to his Mom’s increasingly erratic whims and their deepening isolation. In this talk, Stefan will discuss his journey all the way down into the “invisible space” he fell into as a homeschooler in the mid-1990s, through the upheavals of his perilous return to the world, and finally to his decision to take control of his own story. A fraught, deeply personal, and occasionally hilarious tale of profound parent-child enmeshment, this talk is especially meaningful for those living with complex family dynamics, while also touching on the state of home education in America.

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A REVOLUTION IN AMERICAN EDUCATION: The Successes and Failures of the Homeschool Movement

When author Stefan Merrill Block’s mother pulled him out of school in the early 90s, he couldn’t have known that he was part of a rising wave of homeschoolers that would radically transform American education. Though modern homeschooling is still quite young, its numbers are now in the millions and rising. For many students and parents, homeschooling provides a critical alternative to traditional education, but for others this largely unregulated system can consign a child to educational neglect, profound social isolation — and in some cases heinous abuse with no outsiders to witness. In this talk, Stefan will draw on his own perilous homeschool past —a story he captures in his New York Times bestselling memoir HOMESCHOOLED— to take the audience on a tour of contemporary homeschooling: how it poses critical challenges to traditional education but also the ways in which current laws can leave children behind.

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THE CRAFT OF THE UNPUTDOWNABLE STORY: How to Grab a Reader’s Attention and Keep It

When New York Times bestselling author Stefan Merrill Block was trying to turn his memories of his complex homeschool childhood into a book, he faced a critical question: how to make a compelling story out of years that were characterized by isolation, by the lack of other people, and by a numbing sameness of his days? The lessons he learned while writing and editing HOMESCHOOLED offer vital insights for anyone interested in writing a book of their own. In this talk, Stefan will discuss techniques to seize and hold the reader’s precious attention: how to naturally cultivate suspense, how to raise stakes and escalate conflict, how to craft compelling and sympathetic characters, how to keep language urgent and active, how to structure a story in the most dramatic way possible. Offering advice that applies to fiction as well as non-fiction, this talk is perfect for writers of any genre who are trying to revise their work for maximum effect, and also for writers who are just at the start of a project, considering how to give shape to an idea or story.

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HOW TO TURN A LIFE INTO A BOOK: The Art and Craft of Memoir

According to a frequently cited study, 81% of American adults believe they have a book in them. For a great many, that book in mind is a memoir, a book-length record of a remarkable life. But anyone who has sat down to try to write their own story immediately confronts essential questions: how to take the chaos of lived experience and give it the shape of a story that will resonate with readers? How to turn real people into characters on a page? And perhaps most critical of all: how to summon the courage that any wholly honest account requires? In this talk, Stefan Merrill Block, author of the New York Times bestselling memoir HOMESCHOOLED, will contemplate these questions and more, offering practical suggestions from his own experience, while also opening up a larger discussion of the art and craft of memoir-writing. Perfect for readers of memoir, and for anyone who has considered writing (or is presently at work on!) a memoir of their own.

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Honors, Awards & Recognition

New York Times Bestselling Author
A TODAY SHOW Read with Jenna Pick
Internationally bestselling author with work translated into ten languages
Finalist for The First Novel Prize from The Center for Fiction and The American Booksellers Association, winner of University of Texas’s Dobie-Paisano fellowship and fellowships from the Santa Maddalena Foundation and Castello Malaspina di Fosdinovo
Winner of numerous international awards, including Best First Fiction at the Rome Festival of Literature, the OVID prize in Romania, the Merck Serono Prize for science writing, and a finalist for Salon du Livre and Il Premio von Rezzori for best work of translated literature
Contributor to The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Guardian, The Los Angeles Times, Granta, among other publications
Screenwriter with multiple film/tv projects in development, including a feature film with Adam Driver/Jury Rigged Pictures

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