“Sarah & Ian have a unique ability to capture the joys and challenges of raising a gender-nonconforming child. Their natural ability as storytellers, combined with their insightful reflections on their own journeys as parents, make them compelling speakers for a diverse range of audiences.” — Joel Baum, Gender Spectrum Education and Training

Sarah & Ian Hoffman are the authors of Jacob’s New Dress, Jacob’s Room To Choose, Jacob’s School Play: Starring He, She, and They!, and Jacob’s Missing Book. Their books have won numerous awards, including the #72 spot on the ALA’s list of the Top 100 Most Banned Books of the Decade. Sarah (she/her) & Ian (he/him) speak widely about raising gender-expansive children, book bans, and creating a culture of kindness. As business partners and spouses, Sarah & Ian have been working together on building a better world for over 25 years. They live in San Francisco with their two children (when they come home from college), one cat, two bunnies, two chickens, and 60,000 bees.

Sarah & Ian's Featured Titles

Jacob’s Missing Book

Magination Press |
Children’s

Jacob―the star of one of the most banned books of the decade―is back in Jacob’s Missing Book, a kid-friendly story about book banning, censorship, and LGBTQ+ rights.

Noah is confused about Emily’s family, so he asks her―who’s Pop and who’s Dad? Jacob knows a way to explain, but how can he? The penguin book isn’t in the library anymore! As the day goes on, everyone is still talking about the mysterious missing book. Ms. Reeves tries to explain why the book is no longer in the library and what all the fuss is about. In the meantime, Jacob hatches a plan to tell the story about Emily’s family.

This book cleverly weaves two critical societal issues into one story―book banning in schools and LGBTQ+ rights. And, who is caught in the middle of all this? Kids who are eager to see themselves and their families in books, feel safe with their experiences, and understand that they are loved and supported.

“Brilliantly executed, timely, and developmentally appropriate. Jacob’s Missing Book is the story every teacher, parent, and librarian should read aloud to help children understand book banning. This title is the exemplar or inclusivity and representation. A must read!” — Susan B. Katz, bestselling, award-winning author

“An impactful and masterfully-written book.” — Elizabeth Goldman, Golden State Readers

Jacob’s School Play: Starring He, She, and They

Magination Press |
Children’s

JACOB—star of Jacob’s Room to Choose and Jacob’s New Dress, one of the most banned books of the decade according to the American Library Association—is back in his third book, and ready to put on a school play! Jacob’s School Play Starring He, She, and They gently introduces readers to gender identity and pronoun use.

As Mrs. Reeves class plans for their school show, Life on the Farm, all of the students, including Jacob, find themselves unexpectedly trying to understand Ari’s identity as they. Ms. Reeves helps Jacob through his confusion by saying, “From the outside, we can’t see who anybody is on the inside. So we have to trust them when they tell us.” After the show premieres and is a hit with family and friends, Jacob comes to full realization of what he, she, and they means and embraces Ari as who they are andthe whole class reaches a new level of identity comprehension. This book introduces young readers to concepts of gender diversity and pronoun use and encourages an understanding of what gender is and how it needs to be respected for everyone, as who they are inside.

“Making space for everyone is no small task. Seeing one another, asking the right questions, and honoring how each person walks through the world is something learned, but not often enough taught… this is not a book about conflict or being accepted by others for who you are. It’s about classmates each embracing that their experience is not the only experience and that every person fits beautifully into this world in their own way. I’m so grateful that children in every classroom will have the opportunity to see themselves and their friends represented in Jacob’s School Play. That’s so needed and so beautifully done in this book.”–Matthew Winner, The Children’s Book Podcast

“The school play metaphor is gentle and effective in showing one child…comprehending a classmate’s nonbinary identity.” — Publishers Weekly

Praise for Jacob’s Room to Choose:
Mentioned in The Wall Street Journal
ALA Rainbow Book List Selection
Recommended by Psychology Today
“An empowering and uplifting tale…perfect icebreaker for young students to have meaningful conversations about gender identity and community.”—The Advocate

Jacob’s Room to Choose

Magination Press |
Children’s

Jacob, the beloved character who made national headlines by wearing a dress to school, is back in an encouraging story about gender expression.

When Jacob goes to the boys’ bathroom, he is chased out because the boys think he looks like a girl because of the way he is dressed. His classmate, Sophie, has a similar experience when she tries to go to the girls’ bathroom. When their teacher finds out what happened, Jacob and Sophie, with the support of administration, lead change at their school as everyone discovers the many forms of gender expression and how to treat each other with respect.

“Everyone can pee in peace in this follow-up to Jacob’s New Dress…Inviting readers into Jacob’s diversely depicted class of students…emphasizes inclusion….a continuation of the conversation about gender expression started in the first book.” — Kirkus Reviews

“So many, many people need to read this book. Kids, adults, politicians, administrators—there is not one person in this world that doesn’t need to digest and ponder the lessons of this sweet, simple, and very necessary (unfortunately) book.” — Kiss The Book

Jacob’s New Dress

Albert Whitman & Company |
Children’s

Jacob loves playing dress-up, when he can be anything he wants to be. Some kids at school say he can’t wear “girl” clothes, but Jacob wants to wear a dress to school. Can he convince his parents to let him wear what he wants? This heartwarming story speaks to the unique challenges faced by children who don’t identify with traditional gender roles.

“Three cheers for Jacob’s New Dress! This is a wonderful story that shows us all that there are many different ways to be in the world. This book has the ability to save lives and change the world. Everyone should read it.” — Lesley Newman, author of The Boy who Cried Fabulous and Heather Has Two Mommies

“Jacob’s New Dress invites all of us to learn with compassion and humor…a brilliant and beautifully-illustrated book and a must-read for all of us.” — Diane Ehrensaft, PhD, Mental Health Director, UCSF Child and Adolescent Gender Center

“Hopeful and affirming.” — Kirkus Reviews

“An ideal companion for families and educators: upbeat yet realistic, astute about peer dynamics, and blessedly lacking in a sermonizing Big Moment.” — Publishers Weekly

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Banned and Proud!

We’re children’s book authors who write books for little kids. Why would anyone ban our books? This talk for adults and older students looks at the many issues around book banning. Where is it taking place? Why is it taking place? How do libraries, public schools, and free speech interact? How do book bans affect kids? What does it feel like to be banned? And wait, did you say the Supreme Court is hearing a case involving one of your books???

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Building a Culture of Kindness: One Book at a Time

Our signature talk for older kids and adults covers what inspired us to write our books. We discuss kids & gender identity, The Great Bathroom Debate, pronouns, our history as banned authors, and a review of the state of book banning in our country—and what we can all do about it.

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Jacob’s New Dress

Appropriate for pre-K to second grade, this talk is centered around the true story of our son, Sam, a little boy who loved dresses. We discuss societal expectations, our family’s journey, and how we came to write our book. We do a read-aloud of Jacob’s New Dress, followed by a guided Q&A. Our emphasis is on cultivating an environment where students feel safe to express themselves, explore their identities, and appreciate and support others.

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I Have to Pee, so Let Me Be!

What’s the worst part of the day for kids who don’t fit gender norms? Using the bathroom at school. This presentation centers around Jacob’s Room to Choose, our book about everyone being able to use the bathroom safely. We discuss how people react when they’re confronted with people who don’t look the way they expect, and how to navigate the world with respect and kindness. We lead a lively quiz on the history of public bathrooms—ranging from gross-out fun to surprising facts—showing that what we consider normal now has not been this way for very long at all. Adaptable for all ages.

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Jacob’s Missing Book

Since 2020, there has been an unprecedented explosion of book banning across the United States. This presentation centers around Jacob’s Missing Book, which tackles the topic of school book bans from a kid’s-eye point of view. What happens when a child’s favorite book is taken away? How do teachers and librarians explain complex adult conflicts to kids? What is some important about stories that books are taken away? This talk will be made age-appropriate according to the audience.

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Behind the Scenes: How We Became Authors and the Path to Getting Published

Where do our ideas come from? What is a writing day like for us? How do two people work together to write one book? How do we work with our illustrator, our publishers, our agent, and our fellow authors? This talk for students and adults can be tailored according to the needs of our audience.

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Casual Chats

Lunchtime meetings with middle school and high school GSAs (Gay Straight Alliances or Gender Sexuality Alliances) or other small groups to chat about whatever is most interesting to students. We often include a version of such an informal gathering with older students between formal classroom presentations for all ages.

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Jacob’s New Dress Teaching Guide, Welcoming Schools

Jacob’s Room to Choose Teaching Guides, Pride & Less Prejudice

Jacob’s New Dress Teaching Guide, Highland Literacy

Seattle Public Schools, Jacob’s New Dress Lesson Plan

Jacob’s School Play Teaching Guide

Sarah & Ian’s Book Banning Page

Sarah & Ian’s Events Page

Honors, Awards & Recognition

Jacob’s New Dress:
American Library Association, #72 on the list of The 100 Most Banned and Challenged Books of the Decade, 2021
Australian Family Therapists’ Award for Children’s Literature, Picture Book, 2017
Canadian Children’s Book Centre, 2015
Forward Reviews, One of the 10 Best Indie Picture Books of 2014
New England Book Festival, Runner-up, Children’s Books, 2014
Association of Children’s Librarians of Northern California, Distinguished List, 2014

Jacob’s Room To Choose:
American Library Association Rainbow Book List Selection, 2020
National Council for the Social Studies/Children’s Book Council, Notable Social Studies Trade Books for Young People Selection, 2020
Foreward Indies, Finalist, Picture Books, 2019

Jacob’s School Play: Starring He, She, and They!:
Bank Street College, The Best Children’s Books of the Year, Five to Nine, 2022

Jacob’s Missing Book:
Cooperative Children’s Book Center CCBC Choices 2025

Media clips

Hampshire News | 80s Alum Writes Banned Books on Kids, Gender Issues, and Now, Book Banning

CBS News | Supreme Court takes up Maryland parents’ bid to opt kids out of lessons with LGBTQ books

WNYC | Brook Gladstone interviews Peter Parnell and Justin Richardson, whose oft-banned picture book And Tango Makes Three is the “missing book” in Jacob’s Missing Book

North Texas Daily | Denton ISD Board of Trustees votes to keep children’s books with gender non-conforming characters in school library

KSQD | KidLit authors on representation in children’s books

ABC10 | Parents Write Children’s Book Series on Raising their Gender Non-Conforming Son

KDNK | Authors of “Jacob’s New Dress” Speak about Gender Non-conforming Youth

Publishers Weekly | PW KidsCast: A Conversation with Ian and Sarah Hoffman

Pride and Less Prejudice | Interview with Sarah and Ian Hoffman, Authors of “Jacob’s Room to Choose”

The Horn Book | Publishers’ Preview: Diverse Voices Redux: Five Questions for Sarah & Ian Hoffman

The Children’s Book Podcast | Sarah and Ian Hoffman #512

American Psychological Association | Helping Kids Understand Gender Nonconformity: An Interview with Jacob

Teen Vogue | School District Removes Book About a Boy in a Dress From Curriculum

TeachingBooks | Meet-the-Author Recording with Sarah Hoffman and Ian Hoffman

The New York Times | North Carolina School System Pulls Book About a Boy in a Dress

Charlotte Observer | NC Legislators’ wrath prods CMS to pull lesson about a boy in a dress

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